Archive for June, 2008

God did it again…

Twice God has sent us a renter for our house in Orlando in one day. That’s right… we have rented our house twice in the first day it was placed on the market. TWICE!

The first time people came the same night we placed a sign in the yard. This time we didn’t even have to put a sign in the yard. Our first tenants moved out on Wednesday and Thursday night my wife showed the house to our next tenant.

Twice He has given us complete peace about the people that are moving in. Twice He has allowed our house to be a blessing to somebody. This time it is to a single mom with two boys who want a yard to play in. Twice He has allowed it to not become overwhelming financial burden.

Hopefully in a few weeks we will be able to tell you about the new exciting plan that God has for His house in Orlando.

Getting comfortable with who I am

This statement is one that is usually packaged as a justification for a certain lifestyle. Maybe I am using it for the same purpose. I know that God calls you to step out of your comfort zone. He often times exposes strengths and talents in your life that you didn’t know you had. But… you are still who He has created you to be. There are times in life that you “reinvent” yourself and embrace certain elements that make you who you are. For example: When we moved to Weston I no longer had to be reminded of past actions that the people at my previous job knew me for. Even though God had changed my life and they knew that it was still a tainted perception based on previous failures of character and judgment. 

I am still who God created me to be for a reason. I am getting more comfortable with that. I am getting more comfortable with the fact that my personality, style, gift mix, etc. are just not going to be what everybody is looking for. I used to try and dance around it and feel like I need to justify every action or defend why I act this way or why I handle situations that way. There are certainly a lot of things that I am not. There is a substantial list of areas that I fall short. But… everyday I figure out more and more why I am who I am and exactly what that means and I make less excuses for it. I have been stuck in the thought that I need to strengthen the weak spots and fill in the voids. I encourage you to join me in focusing on your strengths. Figure out those areas that God has given you a passion for or maybe you excel in a specific area and capitalize on those things.

I’m Back, I Think…

I know a lot of really dedicated bloggers give day to day updates on their vacations but I am just not that sold out. We had an incredible trip and my wife did a wonderful job of planning the whole thing. We saw a bunch of wild life, experienced the great outdoors, were exposed to new cultures (boat/airplane access only islands) and even had time to catch a few rays. Check out some pics here. 

Playing catch-up at work since we got back and also with the church but for some personal updates I became an uncle on Father’s Day which is pretty cool. I want to congratulate my sister and my brother-in-law Jimmy on their beautiful baby girl. My son is all excited about the thought of having a cousin. I don’t think he realizes that he is losing his corner on the grandparent market but at least he is still the only boy. 

Owen got me a pretty cool manly gift for daddy day. His mom tried to get him to do something crafty and make some pottery but he came through and made me a plate designated for bringing meat in off the grill.      

Since my dad was at the hospital most of the day awaiting my sister’s baby I didn’t really have a chance to wish him a Happy Fathers Day. Since my sisters birth the world has revolved around her… just kidding. I want my dad to know that even though I didn’t give him a grandbaby on Father’s Day, I do love him and appreciate him. 

We have one more week of One Prayer and I am looking forward to closing it out strong. We are excited about what God is doing and were excited to be able to participate in the One Prayer Project to plant 500 churches in China, Cambodia, India and Africa. I am proud of how our group responded to this great missions opportunity. 

Harmony and Owen are headed out of town tomorrow to take care of our rental property in Orlando. I am hoping this will give me the time needed to put out a few more blogs this week.

I didn’t crap in your shoes…

I am not a violent person but sometimes I just want to stab some people in the jugular. OK so that was a little bit of an exaggeration but I can’t stand when people act everyday like you are the one that peed in their Cheerios, crapped in their shoes or did some other vile, disgusting thing to them that would make them act nasty toward you. I have to remind myself that life is different without Christ in it. I have to realize that living a life everyday without any real hope has got to be depressing and frustrating. Sometimes I think that we have to forget we have Christ to have some sort of perspective of where people are coming from.  So instead of lashing out and returning ugly for ugly I have decided to repay meanness with so much stinking kindness that they can’t even stand to be around me. I figure that is a win-win. If they see the difference in me it might just be contagious. If it repulses them and they stay away well…  We talked about the turn the other cheek scripture a few weeks ago and I found an interesting twist in a commentary when researching it. If a Roman soldier hit you with an open hand and you retaliated it would be punishable by death. Often times this would be a way of provoking people so they would have a justification to eliminate them. This commentator argued that by Jesus telling people to turn the other cheek it was a way of antagonizing the soldiers. I don’t know if this is true or not but today I find myself antagonizing nasty people with kindness. This is probably wrong and I will have to repent about it but at this moment it is either that or responding to nastiness with nastiness. So I am smiling as I turn the other cheek today and it’s not because I am mooning them.

Continuing the Countdown

Just 23hrs 13min till vacation! I can’t wait to spend Saturday-Wednesday with just my family. This past year and a half have been a whirl-wind and we really need this time to regroup. My wife and son have been incredible through this process but they deserve some quality time. I am also planning to look up an old mistress of mine while we are away.

Fond Farewell to Stuart

Today I was going to blog about the first funeral service at InDependence, but I just feel like I want to go a different direction. After writing a couple of weeks worth of newsletters, putting together video presentations for this week, programs, etc. I was just over promoting One Prayer.

Then I hoped on the web site and began to read the 386 comments posted today regarding the Fasting Focus: Salvations.  In these posts people listed name after name of individuals they were fasting and praying for today.Can I just say that I am glad that there is a God who has always been listening to these prayers? I would have never had an opportunity to here the prayers of these 386 people if it weren’t for One Prayer.

Can I save them or heal them, no but my heart grieves at this moment with them as I read the names: Crystal, Jerry, Eli, Heather, Kayla, Terry, Anita, Courtney, Zach… Than I think of my list and the list of the other 750,000+ people taking part in this and I am just caught in wonder of Great is our God.

How great?…  How can this many unmet needs be a sign of greatness? To me I see a remnant of people still willing to call on the Lord. I also see a God that actually knows each one of the names listed. He knows what they look like, where they live, what their problems are, and even how many hairs they have on their head.

How? I don’t know but by faith in His word I know that He does. I am begging the people who make up InDependence Church to get involved. I challenge you to take a few minutes from your very busy lives and invest in praying and fasting with and for the other participants in One Prayer… because they are praying for you. Don’t believe me, here is what Lu Ann said just 3 hrs ago:

I am bound to my home this week. It just happens my husband needs work on his truck, He is using my car, How Awesome our God is. He also has a great sense of humor. I will devote my time at home to “One Prayer.” Please know I am praying for you, who have asked for prayer, in the name of our Lord Jesus.

In the News on One Prayer

“Lord, make us … “: Pastors fill in the blank as part of national prayer campaign

LifeChurch.tv launches national campaign

| South Florida Sun-Sentinel June 8, 2008

If you could have one wish for your church, what would it be?

Would you want it to be more energetic? Less preachy? More intimate?South Florida pastors are brainstorming creative supplications for their congregations as part of the national “One Prayer” campaign sponsored by LifeChurch.tv, an Oklahoma-based megachurch with a branch in Wellington. More than 1,200 churches will participate beginning today through the end of the month, including 11 in South Florida.

The prayer to be used: “Lord, make us …” Pastors are free to fill in the words they believe fit the aspirations of their congregations.

At InDependence Church in Weston, the word is “contagious,” according to the Rev. Nathan Griffis. “We churches are guilty of being the opposite of contagious,” said Griffis, who opened the church, which meets at the Sagemont School, less than three months ago. “We push people away. We lose sight of the big picture.”

Griffis said he learned about the campaign from reading a fellow pastor’s blog a few months ago. He said he was intrigued by the simplicity of the message and how easy LifeChurch.tv made it to participate.

Participating churches go to www.oneprayer.com, where they have a choice of video sermons from 60 preachers, each using his own adjective in the “Lord, make us …” prayer. Among the choices: the Rev. Jentezen Franklin of Gainesville, Ga., preaching, “Lord, make us powerful” and the Rev. Perry Noble of Anderson, S.C., preaching, “Lord, make us dangerous.”

The Web site allows congregants to begin conversations about their experiences during the One Prayer campaign. The program includes fasting and a fundraising campaign to build churches in China, India, Sudan and Cambodia.The Rev. Bobby Gruenewald of LifeChurch.tv said the idea began about a year ago, when LifeChurch.tv invited four pastors to share its pulpit during the summer. Other churches also sought to participate, Gruenewald said, and the number of congregations grew from about 400 two months ago to more than 1,200 in 20 countries this month. “It’s a simple way for pastors to explain where they’re coming from,” Gruenewald said. “Churches have wanted to work together for a long time. What’s enabling us to do it now is the technology is there to connect us.

We hope the series is a catalyst for churches to work together on a more consistent basis.”This aspect of the campaign appealed to the Rev. Stan Coleman of South Palm Community Church, which meets on Sundays at Boynton Beach High School. Coleman said he has been looking for ways to show his 1,000 congregants that they are part of a bigger Christian community. Coleman said he also has been working hard to teach members to accept each other without judgment, even if they smoke or have tattoos. His prayer: “Lord, make us a place of grace.”“God called me to start a church that was not a gated Christian community,” Coleman said. “I want to teach our people that it’s not about the religion, it’s about the relationship, and they should extend that grace to other people.”

MHO Seeks SMHR

Let me translate: Married Home Owner seeks Single or Married Home Renter

Well have about 20 days left of guaranteed GOOD renters in our house near Orlando. This is clearly one more in a long line of opportunities that we have faced since moving to South Florida. I say opportunity because with all of them God had an opportunity to show us His grace and He did, when we (I ) let Him.

What a lesson in reliance. Not a fun lesson but up to this point there has been some loop holes and methods that I have used to circumvent the issues. There has been a way to grab the bull by the horns and redirect it a little, but not stop it from coming. Well this one has no horns to grab, no rope left to loop, no more method to the madness. It is up to God and he rented it in one day before and I need Him to do it again.

Will the world end in 20 days, no. But at the same time we NEED some divine intervention. That is not my one prayer but it certainly is one of my prayers.

So God, I don’t need any more reasons to brag about Your goodness but give me one anyway. You have proven time and time again that there is no problem too big or too small for you. You directed us to buy that house and You know the purpose, so I pray that You would provide us with some more wonderful renters.  Amen.

Fast Lane

This was one of my favorite shows and was cancelled before it should have been. But that is not why I titled this blog that way.  In small group last night we talked about the lost practice of fasting in preparation for One Prayer. Here are some points from the outline:

General Scripture References: Ezra 8:21-23 and Philippians 3:12-21  

Definition:  Christian’s voluntary abstinence from food (or other significant thing) for spiritual purposes.

Eight Types of Biblical Fasting:

  1. Normal Fast (Luke 4:2) No food but allowed to drink
  2. Partial Fast (Daniel 1:12)
  3. Complete or Absolute Fast (Ezra 10:6, Acts 9:9) No food or drink
  4. Supernatural Fast (Deuteronomy 9:9, I Kings 19:8)
  5. Private Fast (Matthew 6:16-18)
  6. Congregational Fast (Joel 2:15-16)
  7. National Fast (II Chronicles. 20:3, Nehemiah 9:1)
  8. Regular Fast (Leviticus 16:29-31)

Eight Purposes of Fasting:

  1. To strengthen our prayer life.
  2. To seek God’s guidance.
  3. To express grief.
  4. To humble yourself.
  5. To seek deliverance.
  6. To express our love and worship to God.
  7. To express concern for the work of God.         
  8. To overcome temptation.

I have gone on two very significant fast in my life but clearly the hardest was fasting television for 30 days. The remote control withdrawal was unbearable.  You might think I am joking but seriously TV can have a pretty strong hold on our lives and breaking that hold was not easy. The other was a 30 day fast where I only drank water. I did add lemon juice to my water after day 15 or so because I could no longer stand the taste of water. As Matthew 6:16-18 says that I am not to share this for worldly praise and I am not. It was great to be able to share these first hand experiences with the group tonight and know, without a doubt, that God responds to fasting.

As we set aside Tuesdays as our day to fast with the over 1200 churches I am trusting God will do some ridiculous stuff here in Weston and around the world.  

Would the Real Pastor Please Stand Up

I didn’t get accepted into Nelson Searcy’s Coaching Network which started last week. Why bring it up now? Well because I am bitter and angry and have been too upset to write about it up to this point. I am just kidding. I had a conversation this morning with breakfast buddy Carl and he asked me this question which made me think about it. “Who is my Pastor?” 

I was glad that he didn’t have a very good answer either but it did get me to thinking. Obviously I think having a Pastor is petty important or I wouldn’t be one but doesn’t every Pastor need a Pastor too?

There are some people who could fill that role in my life. My dad has been my Pastor in the past and filled the role of priest of his house but I really want my dad to be dad first and pastor second. His prayers, support and encouragement mean more to me coming from him as dad than they would coming from him as Pastor.

There have been other guys throughout my life that I have considered to be my Pastor but who would be the individual I would call if I was in some real personal trouble today. Professionally I have some accountability people to go to at the denominational level but if I get one “Pastor Call”, who is that man or women? 

I have individuals that if I called I believe would respond but this question has really clouded my mind as to what a Pastor is to me. I decided that somebody to call to “bail me out” of issues isn’t really what I look for in a Pastor. Even if they came to the rescue I don’t know if they would make them my Pastor.

At this point in my young ministerial career I need a Pastor to affirm me. To offer up encouragement, not only when I am in the valley but when I am on the mountain. Somebody that would give me advice and wise council if asked but would also take the initiative to offer it even if not asked. I need a Pastor who cares enough to tell me the truth even when it hurts.  

So I find myself defining the role of a Pastor for me. I know a pretty selfish move… I wonder what a Pastor looks like to you. Being that I am one, I think, I would love to hear what you look for and expect.